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ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION  

Results:
You selected in the questionnaire, number 1  or 3:
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I have never been able to get or keep an erection through to ejaculation with a partner
• I have never been able to get or keep an erection with self-pleasure (masturbation) through to ejaculation

These statements indicate the category of Non-acquired Erectile Dysfunction.

The term Non-acquired applies when the erection problem has always been an issue, right from the earliest sexual experiences and is present with either self-pleasure or whilst being with a partner. This category applies when a person has never been able to maintain an erection right through to ejaculation. Non-acquired erectile dysfunction is the most uncommon form of erectile difficulty and may be driven from a number of factors.

The following areas are known contributors to either causing, from the beginning, and / or keep maintaining the dysfunction. You will need to carefully consider your answers and investigate further anything you feel may be an issue.

    • What were the attitudes during your up-bringing towards sex in general: rather negative, somewhat negative, positive or this needs further investigation?
    • Think about your own attitudes towards sex in general: example, is it considered just for procreation or something for enjoyment.
    • Think about your own attitudes towards self-pleasure (masturbation) in general: am I OK with this concept, think people shouldn’t do it or think it’s OK for people to do it regularly?
    • Do you believe in sex out of marriage / relationship or do you believe it is acceptable only within the sanctity of a marriage / relationship?
    • How is your physical health in general? Do you exercise regularly?
    • Do you have any reason to suspect that you may have any biological issues eg. cardiovascular disease, diabetes or other significant illnesses? If so, have you sought a medical examination?

    • Have you consulted with your GP about the dysfunction to determine any biological issues?
    • Looking back over your family’s medical history, is there any illness such as: cardiovascular disease, diabetes or other significant illnesses?
    • Have your experienced any pelvic trauma, pelvic surgery, prostate or lower bowel issues?


• Was there any traumatic experience present when you first attempted (or just prior to) self-pleasure and / or sex with a partner?
• Do you smoke / drink alcohol regularly / take medications or illicit drugs?
• Do you suffer from: anxiety / stress, fear of sexual contact, performance anxiety, depression, guilt or grief?
• Have you experienced any past (or current) trauma / sexual trauma or grief and loss?
• Think about your earliest sexual experiences or romantic relationships – were these (or currently are) in line with your personal value systems?
• Check the level of your sexual knowledge – would you benefit from more sexual information?

Once you have established the answers to these questions, it is likely you have uncovered the driver and / or what’s maintaining the issue. You will then need to address this in order to establish healthy sexual functioning.

Other options:
Download the Discovery Workbook.
The Discovery Workbook takes you on an investigative and reflective journey through potential issues that may be driving the problem. It’s an in-depth look at the issue including questions, activities, reflections and case studies that will assist you in uncovering the essence of the problem. $39.95. To purchase the Discovery Workbook. 

Book a Telephone or Skype appointment with your Sex Therapist.
Advise us of your preferred time and date and we will endeavour to meet your needs wherever possible. You will receive communication about your booking within 60 minutes. Telephone and Skype appointments are $120.00 for a 60 minute session and are done with maximum convenience to you, in the privacy of your own home or office.

 

Book a face-to-face Clinic Appointment with Terri OReilly.
Clinic rooms are located on Wickham Terrace, Spring Hill. Sessions are 1 hour in duration and are $145.00 per session. Advise us of your preferred time and date and we will endeavour to meet your needs wherever possible. You will receive communication about your booking within 60 minutes.

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